I will come back
Famous host of U.S.A. " Linklater " Visit a child each day, ask he says: ' what do you want to act as after growing up? ' child's innocent answer: ' eh I want to work as the driver on plane! ' Linklater continues asking: ' if one day, your plane flew to the Pacific Ocean all engines have stopped working, what shall you do? ' children have thought: ' I will tell the person sitting on the plane to tie the good safety belt first, then I hang up my parachute and jump out. '
When it was dilapidated that the audience at the scene smiled, Linklater continues gazing at this child, want to see whether he is the fellow thinking oneself clever. I had never expected, then two lines of hot tears of the child's gush out, this Linklater that just makes discovers the sad and pityful feeling of this child can't be described by pen and ink far. Then Linklater asks he says: ' does why do so? ' the child's answer reveals out a child's sincere idea: ' I want to take the fuel, I will come back! ! "I will come back! ' .
When you hear others speak Do you really understand the meaning that he talks about? If does not understand, at work whether we often make such trouble, will not listen to people leaving the ones that quote a remark out of its context after finishing saying in words and affirming whether misunderstand the other side's bright original meaning, together with strangling the creativity and initiative of the other side.
Do you really understand the meaning that he talks about? Meaning on at the meaning of word or under the mesa? You understand correctly
And then say the real meaning in which this words will express? Perhaps you will say he does not say how to extravagantly hope I pay attention to
Solve, but does not he say or are you unwilling to hear?
How is it named and like to hear? Obedient don't listen to half. Don't throw one's own meaning to others' place
On said. Listen to others finishing the words, this is ' art listened to '
Rail
A group of children play outside, and there are two pieces of rail in that place, one is being still used, one has already been stopped using. Only one child chooses to play on the rail stopped using, its children are all still playing on the rail that is used. Very unfortunately, the train has come. (and the natural one have a lot of children's above, still go on the rail that is used) . And you are standing by the switching over device of the rail, so you can let the train transfer to the rail stopped using. In that case you can rescue most children, but that child in stopping using the rail will be died. What shall you do?
It is said most people will choose to rescue more persons, in other words, sacrifice that child playing in stopping using the rail. But this draws another question again: That chooses the child who stops using the rail to obviously make the correct decision, choose the safe place after breaking away from his friend, but his friends are played in the place that plays by the ignorant choice. Why make correct people of choice, want, die for most people of ignorances?
Irrational
Charles' father passes away, but this story between he and father makes him difficult to forget all the time. In the childhood, he do me a favor on the general shop where father was turn on often in Charles. What work is all adults there, father hopes the son can learn some useful things from their body.
There is a not persona grata in the general shop, the partners all call him " degenerate old fellow " privately . Everybody knows he says to wife's thing not loyal, he is not a person worthy to be respected absolutely from morals.
Charles hears of this person's moral standing to some extent too, so like other children, do not respect him very much. The children other adult men of call are all " Mr. so-and-so " ,And hereto " The old ruffian " ,But they would only like to call him " Joe " .
Charles father one day hear son and " Joe " Dialogue,then son calling office.
" the son, " Father says, " I have ever told you, it must be modest and courteous that speak with the elder. But I heard you calling ' Joe ' loudly just now. "
The son explains to father why does he wants " Joe " on purpose With " Mr. Smith " Or " Mr. Brown " Treat with a certain discrimination.
Finally, the son tells father, " gentleman " A word is left to the person worthy to be respected, he is unworthy of and that fellow!
"It is his business whether he mixes, and you treat him like this is your question, a impolite one is you now, young people!
" Father says, " it is not your impolite excuse to have a view on another person! "
This it is he father that give first of far-reaching significance course of him, this is accompanied by Charles, even the same after he becomes a very successful businessman.
Always there is some barbarous unreasonable reprimanding in life that will pain us, it is eager to fight back but does not need at this moment, should think about first what is what you should do.
Because the one that showed at the time of impoliteness is mostly ourselves, but not the person that we hate, likewise, treat this scornful person impolitely, will reduce us in the kindhearted position in people's eyes too.
